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Personal Intelligence

Using Personal Intelligence to Understand Personal intelligence differs from emotional intelligence.  Emotional intelligence leaves out people's intentions, traits, motives and life stories.  Personality intelligence looks at the mental process of understanding others; therefore, being able to better interact with others.  Personal intelligence also means having a good knowledge of ourselves.  Seeing ourselves clearly isn't always easy, especially when it involves remembering and wrestling with …

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Holidays With the In-laws

Surviving Holidays with the In-laws and More I have already begun working with many of my clients on how to manage the holidays, which feels to most far from any sort of true relaxing holiday.  Besides the fact that time gets shorter, money gets tighter, and energy gets zapped, the family also comes together.  And some of this family does not even feel like yours?  The in-laws are coming.  The intensity and anxiety are increasing.  The stress in your love relationship is driving you crazy.  What …

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Sex and Love Addiction: In Women

Understand Sex and Love Addiction In Women Many times a week I am asked about my work with sex and love addicts.  Just as alcoholism was a dirty secret in the middle of last century, sex and love addiction is for the addict their dirty little secret.  Society, for a large degree, has accepted substance abuse and alcoholism, even a gambling addiction is understood by many.  But love and sex addiction, isn't that just men? Defining healthy sexuality from unhealthy sexuality is an important …

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